t may be hard for you to feel confident on your first date, particularly if you have no idea how to carry on an interesting conversation with a woman that you find very attractive. If the thought of going out with a pretty girl has you weak in the knees, here are some great tips that can help you to have a successful date and carry on interesting conversations with the woman:
- Always find out what she is interested in. If you know what she is interested in, you will be much more easily able to talk with her about all the things that she knows. Women love to feel that men want to know more about them, so get her to talk about things she finds interesting.
- Pay attention to the things she says and use them to further your conversation. Take mental notes of little things like “While I was jogging…” or “after I went to dance lessons…” in order to use them as springboards for more conversation on things she is interested in.
- Use little jokes to get her laughing or smiling, but always take note of the things she laughs at. If she is laughing out of pity, you can know your jokes are not going over well and should be discontinued. Not every woman will laugh at the same jokes, so see what makes her laugh.
- Don’t overdo it on the jokes. Many men simply try too hard to make women laugh, and they make jokes that are lame or corny. While some women like those jokes, most women will not and will lose interest. Keep the jokes light and simple, and focus on being interested.
- Using body language to show that you are interested in what she has to say. Lean forward with one or both hands under your chin, and use your eyes and facial expressions to show that you follow it. You will find that ever simple things like “no way” or “go on” will be enough to keep her talking about herself for hours.
- Mirror her expressions, smiles, and body languages as unobtrusively as you can. Don’t be too obvious, but show by your facial expressions and posture that you are listening to what she is saying as closely as possible.
- Avoid talking with food in your mouth, as that is an incredibly unattractive habit.
- If you have no clue what to talk about, write down some simple questions beforehand.
- Don’t be afraid to show that you have no idea what she is talking about, and have her explain it to you. Women love to feel that they are smarter than men, so don’t hesitate to show that you don’t know something.
- Be intelligent. If you know something about what she is talking about, show that you have at least limited understanding by asking a few simple questions related to the conversation.
One great way to enhance the effectiveness of your conversation is by using pheromones to attract the other person. If the woman you are talking to feels attracted to you, you will find that she will be much more likely to be interested in your date. Pheromones will increase the feeling of attraction and thus make your date go much more smoothly.